The “CLICK” system…

How many people in this world have been unwittingly caught up in the wonderful world of the “Click”?

For those that have never had to deal with it, a “click” is a group of people that view you as an outsider, threat, or gatecrasher, basically, they see you as someone that doesn’t belong to what they are throwing down.

I love it when that “click” is formed in a mutual, and understanding that they dislike a person… Most of the people in the “click” have never met, talked to, or had anything to do with the person in question they have simply taken the view of someone that they have associated with and decided to dislike that person for no other reason.

Sad really, If they got to know the person and make their minds up themselves they may find that the one-sided story may have been exaggerated, not all it was meant to be, petty or just plain wrong.

But, oh well, the “click” simply can’t do that they need to make the person feel alone, singular, unloved, and out in the cold.

So how do we overcome the “click” mentality???

You have to be tough, you have to be confident, you have to be authentic within yourself and not give a SHIT as to what the “click” is saying, how they are acting, and what they think.

This all sounds good and well, until it comes to your kids and you see and feel the “click” and know that because of their issue with you, they have started programming their children to respond to your kids in a similar way.

That is when you step in, you don’t let that shit affect your children’s life.

The “click” is not to be taken lightly, they can do some serious damage to your reputation, to your life, to your mental health.

They are really a toxic situation that the adult world wouldn’t allow children to do to others.

Yet, the adult world happily does this in the work environment, homeschooling groups, sporting groups, and generally anywhere where someone can get their knickers in a knot, have a chat about you with others to form a group bonding situation so they feel secure in their opinion and validated in what they have thought, said or done.

Simple really, we wouldn’t accept the behavior from children yet act on it in our daily lives and others have their lives turned upside down due to this form of— Let’s say it clearly — it is BULLYING.

The “click” is a group of people that are bullying other people.

So what do we do to protect ourselves or deal with the “click” bullying??

From someone that has been on the end of this, it is tough and demoralizing and makes you feel horrible.

But, to deal with it you need to be able to switch off (which is hard if you’re an empath) and continue to live your life.

This doesn’t mean not involving yourself in everyday life or even turning the other cheek – it just means living and doing all those things that you do and have done and if necessary calling the person you know is making the “click” situation out.

It is difficult to do, but most of those in a click will also end up separating and splitting apart as they complain and whine about each other behind their back.

They will leave each other and the so-called “friend” will start to reach out and try to chat, quiet innocently, and try to make it seem like they had just forgotten about you.

Don’t let this fool you, they are feeling the change in energy and starting to feel a little isolated and therefore trying to bring you back to their inner circle.

Trying to bring you into their “inner circle” which is simply code for “I NEED SUPPORT”

Usually, these types of people are also the type that talks to you about others (should have a few alarm bells here).

These are usually the ones that call you “sister”, or “Girlfriend” and use flowery terms like I know I can trust you, we have a great connection, and I am always there for you.

Yep, you know the ones.

Now don’t get me wrong they are the genuine ones that use these words, but you will know them, they aren’t bad-mouthing others to you so are certainly not bad-mouthing you to others.

They aren’t seeking your validation for what others have said or done, they own their shit and they don’t tolerate other people’s bull shit. 

These are the authentic souls that if you do to them all those things I have mentioned, they will drop you and you have lost a great support network FOREVER. 

These people aren’t coming back and definitely aren’t going to allow you to win them back with flowery chit-chat.

These are also the type of people that don’t do the “click” and will call others out for treating people like shit.

When you encounter these people treat them well, love them properly, and don’t use them up because they are the real deal in life.

Don’t be afraid of the “clicky chicks” they don’t have much going on in their lives and desperately need others to validate them, their feelings, their actions, and basically their life.

This isn’t something you need because you are strong, independent and have a mind that owns your shit.

Hope you feel the love and those suffering the “click society” at this very point in life then stand up, grab your voice, and take back your inspiration, voice, and control of your life.

Love to hear your thoughts on this subject, add a comment…

Chat soon,

Meeg’s

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