It is a curly question considering not so long ago I was the apparent subject for undermining the community.
Now if you had asked me this question back then I would have said that I support people by sharing, commenting, and loving posts that they have especially when they are trying to create a new business.
Now, however, I am not so sure.
I suppose now I have become a silent supporter of others rather than a vocal advocate as for the very first time in my life I was told that I made someone feel undermined.
This HURT ALOT and I have to say was genuinely sorry for what pain and anguish I had caused.
Fast forward and something still bugged me, it was the fact that the person had this behavior clarified by others and I had NO WAY of finding out from them what I had done to make them think this way.
Now to be real, if I was told that the person felt undermined and that what I had done was upsetting to them I would have been fine, the other’s apparent clarification is what troubled me. It meant that others agreed and that the behavior that I was exhibiting was found wanting by others.
I wanted to know who, and what this behavior was as I couldn’t fix my own problematic behavior if I didn’t know what it was.
So to answer the above question, I couldn’t tell you how or what I do to support or improve the community anymore as what I thought was okay before clearly ISN’T OKAY, and that is NOT okay for me.
